Hello everyone!
I'm very new here (have never even lurked before), but I'm very glad I have found this place. I'll cut right to the chase: my husband and I adopted a rescue beagle/lab mix from our local shelter (NY, close to city, in suburbs) in April (we named her Coco). She was about 10 months old at the time. All we knew of her was that she came from a kill shelter in kentucky, but had most recently been fostered on a farm in Ohio. The foster family had said she was a sweet, shy dog who had gotten along well with other animals and children. They also mentioned she was an escape artist and would escape from every crate they tried.
We met the dog about 1 hour after she arrived from ohio at our local shelter, and she was terrified, but awfully cute. We adopted her less than a week later. The shelter didn't know much more about her, other than the fact that she wasn't fully house broken, and that she was not yet able to walk on a leash. We were willing to work with her.
Within the first few days, aside from the house-training issues (since dealt with, and she is trained. She only has trouble going when she is away from her "spot" at home, but it's not a big deal), we noticed that she would get overly- agitated, to the extreme, when put in a crate. She would salivate, shake, cry and howl. When we returned from work, we'd find that the crate was moved three-four feet across the hardwood floors, the pan underneath was slid completely away, and any blankets or sheets were shredded to confetti. Eventually, she bent the bars on the crate, and cut her nose on them.
This only lasted about a week. We had no choice but to bring in a behaviorist. He video taped her while we all left for about 20 minutes. He said she did NOT have separation anxiety, because she did nothing but sit on the couch and chew on her bone. He did say that she had barrier frustration, and should not be crated, because it was cruel.
So, we began to just leave her in our living room (we live in a an apartment- we would allow her free rein of the living room and kitchen, but the two bedroom doors, along with the bathroom door, remained closed). This worked out beautifully for a few weeks. That is, until one day, we returned home to find that our couch cushions had been torn to bits. This was eventually solved by placing the folded crate on top of the couch whenever we left the house (we got new cushions, and she hasn't gone near the couch since), since she is terrified of the crate, even in its folded form.
In the interim, she has chewed my oriental rugs, my curtains, and some wood furniture. We now have to fully dog-proof the house before leaving for work. I no longer have area rugs. Most recently, she chewed (destroyed) the corners of my grandmother's 65 year old cedar hope chest- a $350 repair. She did this all because I wanted to take a nap, animal-free, in my bedroom for an hour, and I left the door to my bedroom closed. Just now, my husband went home on his lunch hour to check on her, and she apparently chewed MORE of the cedar chest.
I am at my wits end. I can't continue to buy and repair new furniture or rugs because the dog chews and destroys everything. I also have to add that I am 8 months pregnant, and I am worried that when the dog can longer sleep in our bedroom at night because the baby will be in there, she will destroy the living room while we sleep. I just don't know what to do anymore. I have tried stuffed Kongs, leaving the TV on,giving her excersize, leaving treats, putting hot pepper sauce on things I don't want her to chew... and she isn't completely alone, I guess you could say, because we also have two cats (they all get along well). Also, my husband and I are both teachers, so we are home earlier than most people are.
Does anyone have any advice? We are attached and don't have the heart to give her up, but we also don't have the extra money to replace and repair expensive items around the house.
Thanks in advance