my 9month old white golden is wild! he has outbursts where he runs wild in my apartment and barks at me uncontrolably, the water bottle squirting thing is useless. "quiet" just makes him more upset. he forces himslef into my bedroom where he acts especially nutty at night prior to falling asleep around 1 or 2 am...when he is alone during the day when i work he is great... quiet and content..help?